Yearly IEP meeting

Well I decided when Jaysin started school my husband and I decided that an online public school option was best for him.  Well each year we have an IEP meeting to update his goals.
   Today we decided that holding him back in the fourth grade would be best. We have known for years that he had autism.  Today they said since he was now ten they can give a final diagnosis. Before all his papers said severe developmental delays with suspected autism.  On Thursday they will be changing that to moderate autism. Just hearing that was like a punch in the stomach all over again. Maybe now we can start looking into the future.